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Dabney Hayes

At a glance

Experience
14 years
Based in
North Carolina
Sessions
Online
Languages
English

TherapistNorth Carolina

Dabney Hayes, LPCC, LPC

Compassionate, practical therapy for life’s hard moments

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License and NPI on record

CredentialStateNumber
LCMHC North Carolina 14628
LMHC Florida MH17976
LMHC Washington LH61246990
LPC Colorado 0016842
LPCC California 21269
LPC South Carolina 11130

NPI1265743801

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  • 14 years experience
  • LPCC and LPC
  • Client-centered approach

About Dabney

Dabney Hayes is a licensed counselor with more than 14 years of experience helping people navigate painful and confusing life moments. She draws on her background as an LPCC and an LPC to offer steady, practical support. Dabney focuses on creating a space where people can talk honestly and start to make small, manageable changes.

Dabney commonly helps people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and addiction. She also supports those struggling with self-esteem, parenting strain, relationship conflict, career crossroads, and the everyday toll of caregiving and chronic illness. She works with issues related to identity and intimacy, including LGBT concerns and body image.

Her style is direct and compassionate. Sessions tend to be collaborative conversations that mix problem-solving and skill practice with attention to feelings. She uses techniques that help people notice unhelpful patterns, test new behaviors, and commit to meaningful changes.

Dabney’s clinical approach combines Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based work, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and client-centered listening. That mix lets her tailor sessions to what each person needs in the moment. She has provided therapy in both individual and group settings during her career.

People who reach out can expect down-to-earth guidance and a focus on practical steps. Dabney aims to help people reduce shame, manage strong emotions, and build more stable routines. To begin, follow the site's start process and schedule a time to talk.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Credentials

North Carolina, Florida, Washington, Colorado, California, South Carolina

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches shape online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice painful thoughts without getting stuck in them and choose actions that match their values. It can be useful for anxiety, depression, and situations where avoidance has become a pattern. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationships affect current connections and helps people try new ways of relating when old patterns cause pain. It can help with intimacy issues, grief, and attachment concerns. Client-Centered Therapy centers the person’s experience, using empathic listening and reflection so the client sets the pace and goals.

Finding the best fit is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals, history, and preferences, and then suggest approaches that might help. Sessions can shift as needs change, combining methods when that makes sense for the work.

The profile does not specify which session formats are used, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life - for example, it can reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins between commitments, or remove the need to be on camera if that is preferable. Licensed professionals can adapt exercises and skill practice for remote sessions so progress continues even when meeting by distance.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Dabney help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, addiction, self-esteem and many related concerns listed on the profile.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her sessions are collaborative and practical, mixing listening with skill practice and problem-solving to help people make changes that fit their life.

How long has she been practicing?

She brings 14 years of clinical experience supporting people in individual and group settings.

What credentials and location should I know?

She holds the credentials LPCC and LPC and is based in North Carolina.

Are sessions available in other languages or countries?

Sessions are offered in English and she does accept international clients.

What session formats are offered?

The original profile does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How is pricing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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